When it comes to talk about an Indian wedding costume the most important thing is COMFORT then to buzz in your mind. Cause Indian weddings are not an hour show. It needs a complete day for each segment. But these days’ metro sexual guys have changed their wardrobe dramatically just like women. They prefer their first choice as LOOKS. So when you are thinking about the costume you need to have a perfect blend of comfort with looks. After all the groom should establish the statement on that day but of course with eye soothing style and comfort.
Style : Most of the guys are now preferring sherwani and achkans for the wedding night. Few years back the trend was moving towards west as suit was the first choice of guys. Sherwani or achkans are paired with the chost or churidar or tight fittings paijamas. Kurta is on the second position by popularity undoubtedly for comfort.it can be teamed with dhoti pyjama or churidar. Present days kurtas can be found with short length and slimmer look.
Fabric : tashar, linen, heavy to light silk(for evening), lezydeisy and cotton (for day time only).
Accessories : stylish metallic buttons, dupattas, matching footwears.
Colours : the most favorite color is still ivory gold, white, bronze, baize .
But these days flaunt colours are widely acceptable for men. Like pink, mauve, black, orange are most favorite colours now.
1> Start your day with the perfect combo of a sweet smile, a cup of coffee and a gentle kiss on lips or forehead.
2> Make breakfast for each other.
3> Be calm and gentle.
4> Exchange your views about the professional life of both. Also comment on the decisions and other things. But make sure all the through you should be polite.
5> Don’t start arguing about anything in the morning.
6> Listen to each other.
7> Talk with each other about anything to everything. Sometimes only talk can minimize such big problems.
8> Encourage each other.
9> If you think your spouse is doing something wrong then state it directly but be soft.
10> Accept the differences between you two.
11> Also try to minimize them.
12> Have lunch together once/twice in a week.
13> Dine together daily if possible. Else try at least thrice in a week.
14> Spend the weekend with each other alone. Don’t keep any work on that day. If possible avoid calls from your boss or office on that day.
15> Don’t bring the tensions of your office in home.
16> Share each other’s thoughts.
17> Talk about the day at night.
18> Make phone calls during the day.
19> Sometimes send cards, flowers for no such reason.
20> Understand each other’s profession and it’s needs.
21> Date once in a week. It improves any relationship no matter how old it is.
22> Select a time of the day which can be called as your own time when you can be alone with each other.
23> Give a gentle massage to each other on a very tiring day.
24> Select some movies and music which can be known as ‘your favorite ’.
25> Exchange compliments.
26> Hold hands. Don’t think it childish. Sometimes only holding hands can make you feel better.
27> Walk, laugh together.
28> Understand each other’s need. Do it before he/she asks for it.
29> Do the things as your spouse’s way for a change.
30> Don’t let the ego come between you two.
1> take a little walk daily to maximize your energy.
2> stretch yourself after waking up. it helps to remove all your tensions from your body.
3> practice Yoga daily for a while. it will not only help your body it will also effect on your mind.
4> take hot bath.
5> make sittings for body massage.
6> take care of your hands and feet by scrubbing them with warm water and shampoo/liquid soap.
7> whenver you think you are upto any problematic situation close your eyes and place yourself in your favourite location with your favourite person(s). it will control the flow of your nerves.
At the end always remember make yourself believe from the bottom of your mind and soul that your are really happy at the present moment, it will reflect on your face and ofcourse in your activities also automatically. and it will make you REAL HAPPY 
1> never take any responsibilities of your own wedding. leave these on your parents and family members.
2> don’t even involve in the planning. just let the planners know what you want on your wedding and let then do everything.
3> even if you find things are not going according to your plan still don’t get panicked.
4> stop lookin around. let your parents work out on everything afterall your are their ward. they also have some desire for your wedding. so let them fulfill those.
5> don’t let others to upset you. keep smiling. remember it’s not your time to be in the ring better concentrate on your wedding ring;)
6> forget all anger with family, friends, neighbours.
7> never compare anything on this big day. try to accept everythin as it comes.
8> don’t indulge with your in-laws.
1> first of all try to stay calm all the time.
2> listen to good music or go out for romantic dinner.
3> drink lots of plain water.
4> do morning and evening walk alone. listen to music during walkin.
5> make out little time for yourself either in the morning after u get out of the bed or at night before going to the bed,
6> think about the day. what you need to do today or what you have done on the day.
7> sit down calmly and remember your all activities.
8> think your stands on every occastions.
9> observe people more. watch their reactions but don’t react on them. talk less and listen more now.
10> spend more time with your Fiance/Fiancee and your folks.
1> make yourself calm and sit down alone and start deep breathing to think what you want and what you don’t. set your heart and mind with a good balance of your feelings
2> let your spouse know that you want to talk abour yourselves
3> go out to some quiet and romantic place where you will be alone, far away from the stress of the wedding
4> set yourself and start talking face to face what you have planned before
5> let him/her speak and listen all the words carefully
6> findout whether everythin is moving right or not
7> don’t start arguing, take your time but stay cool all the time through
8> discuss with the married couples who celebrating their marriages happily for years. listen to their suggstions
9> accept the fact that you both will play different roles as married couple. it doesnot matter how you are as a premarried couple
10> find out whether any changes occur in your relation or in your spouce’s behaviour after your engagement
11> observe very carefully every reactions, expressions, activities of your fiance/fiancee while you talking about or planning for your wedding, these are very important to address before you process the actual wedding. but DON’T START SPYING EACH OTHER
12> have couple of romantic dinner/lunch together
13> go out for shopping, long drives together
14> make out plans with your inlaws, it will help to build up a healthy relationship before wedding
15> spend time with your folks and relatives
16> set up a healthy diet for yourself with lots of green vegetables, small fish(oil free), plain water, fresh fruit juice (home made)
17> share your joy/sadness with yoyr Fiance/Fiancee
18> discuss about the job, try talk about anything to everything. Don’t frame your topics with such specifications
19> ask him/her about health and other things friendly. but make sure things are not sounding like routine, your care for the other should be there
20> if you are too busy to spend much time together then make sure you are making phone calls. it does not matter whether you really need it or not, call up just to say HI! with a smile, it will make him/her feel better no matter in what situation he/she is.
